Hello everyone,


I run #AskYele on twitter every Wednesday but, twitter does not give me the leverage of writing out what I want to write, how I want to write it so I have decided to have a blog where I can fully express myself and put in videos as well to send out to you all.


I was speaking to a friend today and I identified the 4 most important things that I always want to speak on and what I share with people whenever I am asked what my core message is.


1.       1. Identify Who You Are.


You are absolutely distinct from everyone. You may look like a family member, or even walk like someone you know, but, there is something different about you. God is really smart. He does nothing without a real purpose and an end in mind. Find out your uniqueness. It’s not external, it’s internal. It may take some searching but its definitely doable. Have fun doing this as well. Don’t take yourself too seriously that you miss out in the fun of getting to know yourself better. 


Humans have this somehow extreme attachment to being in some form of pain to learn things about themselves. It’s really not painful. Don’t make it more than it truly is. I would like to advise that you have a book where you can document a lot of things you are discovering about yourself or you think you have a capacity for. You might just be humored at the things your mind comes up with


2.     2. Pursuit of Happiness


This is so philosophical so let me give you my version of the term. Enjoy your life! With the recession going on in the world right now, stress and the hustle spirit is the definitely the game now. So PLEASE don’t kill yourself trying to get that paper or getting a head way. Enjoy the simplicity and the beauty of being alive and not just alive but healthy and alive. Rekindle past relationships, get out more, and make new friendships. Smile.


3.       3. Social Responsibility


You need to think people. Whatever you feel or think you are designed for or you are good at has to have people as its end consumers. You cannot afford to be the me, myself and I person at all. Help in whatever way you can. Make someone happy. Do a community service. Give someone a fresh start. Be responsible


4.       4. Accountability


I think the reason we have many sociopaths and psychopaths in the world today is because people are left alone with their thoughts and actions. You are not an isolated island. That’s why you were born in the unit of a family. You need people that would let you know that they believe in you and can also step you down a notch when they know you’re heading to destruction. You have them around you, identify them and maximize their relationship with you. Be accountable to yourself as well. You cannot set yourself on a part of destruction and not tell yourself the truth


So you see, I could not have put all this on twitter with 140 characters per tweet! 


So its time to UNLEARN, LEARN AND RELEARN.


Thank you

Yele.

Comments

  1. Unknown15 September 2016 at 05:53

    I personally love that part of accountability. Thanks pastor B. Really blessed

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    1. AskYeleLive11 October 2016 at 04:51

      Thank you Anuoluwapo. I am happy you were blessed. Keep shinning

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  2. EFIREMFON16 September 2016 at 12:33

    I'm so proud of you girl!Grace Grace Grace Grace all the way!!!

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