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IT WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR CHOICE!

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A friend of mine put up some pictures on his social media platform a while ago. There were memories about an aspect of his life that he was grateful for and really appreciative about. There were a lot of known faces in those pictures. Some I know have personally have gone off their paths of purpose and are trying to get their lives back and people who have made something of great importance out of their lives on earth. Then I saw this picture and I was really saddened. In the particular picture were 3 guys. At that point, they looked the same, lost. They had issues in their lives and I could say that they were on the same level because I knew them then. “You may not be responsible for the place where you are born and the experience of your birth. But, you are very responsible for your future and the experience that would invariably occur because of your choices.” When you are faced with a brick wall or when you are faced with an impossible situation or a very hard life

17 REASONS NOT TO HAVE SEX ON VALENTINE’S DAY ( PART III)

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The final part to the 3-part series on 17 reasons not to have sex on valentine's day is here. I am sure you have learned from me. i pray that you make the right decisions going forward. #13. NO PLAN IS A PLAN I was speaking with someone and she related that a friend in her university was a virgin but had no reason for being and staying a virgin. She started dating a fellow student and decided to have sex with him should he ask her to, why? Because he was very good to her. Since she didn’t have a reason and a plan or being and keeping her virginity, then if anything happens, she is willing to flow. If you don’t have a plan not to sleep around this valentine season, then you may just sleep around because you don’t have a plan! #14. PREGNANCY Please don’t be tricked with some silly family planning method you choose. Those things are 50/50. The possibility of getting pregnant is as high as your assurance of protection. Do not delay your plans for a good future or totall

17 REASONS NOT TO HAVE SEX ON VALENTINE’S DAY ( PART II)

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And I am here with the part 2 of my series 17 reason not to have sex this valentine. Remember that you cans end me an email to askyelelive@gmail.com or put up your questions in the comment section and i would reply you. You can also contact me through my Facebook and Instagram channel. So let's get back to it. #7. BOOTY CALL                  I was actually on a list of someone’s booty call some time ago and boy was I livid!! A booty call is a call for sex from someone who don’t wants nothing to do with you but fulfill their specific sexual need at the moment. So your ex or that person you don’t have a relationship with but have sex with? You call whenever you’re lonely and vice versa. When you are feeling the pressure of the valentine this season, exercise some self-control. Don’t dial those numbers and don’t pick that call because you know what’s going to go down at the end of the day. #8. VALUE. One of the things I have discovered with people who have pre-marital

17 REASONS NOT TO HAVE SEX ON VALENTINE’S DAY ( PART I)

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Hello everyone, Curious about what I have to say right? I was thinking about this and I realized that people really need reasons to either do something or not to do it at all. So here goes… 17   reasons why I Yele think you need to zip up your trousers or pull down your skirts. This is coming in 3 parts because giving you all 17 reasons in one post would be too lo ng. So here goes!! #1.   GOD LOVES YOU. What?! God loves everyone in a general context. But you see in relations to you, His love is totally unimaginable. He knows exactly what would happen if you decide to allow that person have their way with you. He knows how you will feel when you’re done and how you will try to rationalize your actions and feelings afterwards. He wants to save you from all that anxiety and disappointment and anguish. #2. YOU. Do you always feel the need to validate your sexuality and the definition of you who are through sex? Do you feel t